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DaniGa22
Created by: daniga22

8/10/24 @ 10:05pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Recently I have been getting the feeling that some models are purposely holding back ejaculation. I had private sessions with three different models in the last one month who did not give me a cumshot.

With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.

With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.

The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.

It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.

What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry! :)
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Diiegos
Created by: diiegos

8/13/24 @ 1:34pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Recently I have been getting the feeling that some models are purposely holding back ejaculation. I had private sessions with three different models in the last one month who did not give me a cumshot.

With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.

With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.

The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.

It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.

What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry! :)



It's bad to hear what happens to you, in my case I have never had an experience like that, I think as you say that when you take the model for a long time you wait even if it is at the end cum show and much more if it is natural. I know of some models who do that because when I was a VIP I saw some videos and then I know which models to never take on pvt
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Created by: gofish

8/13/24 @ 3:40pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Recently I have been getting the feeling that some models are purposely holding back ejaculation. I had private sessions with three different models in the last one month who did not give me a cumshot.

With one model I spent 1 hour and 6 minutes in private. Paid cpm and tips to vibrate. It started as a 20 minutes show but I kept adding minutes to help him climax. But one hour later he still did not make an attempt to give me cum. I had to leave and I ended the session after 1 hour and 6 minutes.

With another model I spent 3 and a half hours in private. Spent 6340 credits. But he would not give me cum. I kept adding minutes after minutes and I finally gave up. He asked me "Do you want cum?" during the session. It is a turn off for me when the model asks like that. I expect him to give it and I want it to happen naturally. I told him "keep doing what you are doing, let it happen naturally". I don't tell the models "I want cum" before I take them private either. It seems like putting pressure and it feels artificial. I expect them to give it to me because I am doing long sessions with them.

The third model, I spent 40 minutes with. He was new and I wasted 20 minutes telling him how to set up the camera, lights, the bed and finally when it was time for the show he had no intention of giving me cum. I did not ask him explicitly for it but again when I spend that much time I expect it. Most models actually understand that and give me cum. At least they will attempt in the last 5 minutes to give it to me.

It was only after the experience with the third model I suspected that they were holding it on purpose. Because about an hour after the private session with me the third model set up a party chat with the goal to cum. No one tipped and that party was over. Another hour later he did another party chat with the goal to cum. This time he was literally begging the guests "guys, help me cum". No one tipped and the party was over. That is when I started suspecting that the models were holding back their ejaculation for later, hoping to make big bucks in a party chat or for a private session towards their closing time.

What do you think? I know it is a long story to read. Sorry! :)

First sorry to hear you had some bad experiences, but one would have hope that the models in question would have taken the to to contact you and at best offer perhaps several FREE minutes in a private just to make up for what you did not get for spending all those credits.

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Diiegos
Created by: diiegos

8/13/24 @ 4:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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First sorry to hear you had some bad experiences, but one would have hope that the models in question would have taken the to to contact you and at best offer perhaps several FREE minutes in a private just to make up for what you did not get for spending all those credits.





I very much agree with you gofish, that would have been a very good solution
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DaniGa22
Created by: daniga22

8/13/24 @ 9:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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It's bad to hear what happens to you, in my case I have never had an experience like that, I think as you say that when you take the model for a long time you wait even if it is at the end cum show and much more if it is natural. I know of some models who do that because when I was a VIP I saw some videos and then I know which models to never take on pvt

Yes, I should learn to assess the models before I take them private. I make the decision to take someone private by impulse. I don't plan ahead of time. That is the problem. Looks like I have to change that habit. Thank you.

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DaniGa22
Created by: daniga22

8/13/24 @ 9:23pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Posts: 124

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First sorry to hear you had some bad experiences, but one would have hope that the models in question would have taken the to to contact you and at best offer perhaps several FREE minutes in a private just to make up for what you did not get for spending all those credits.



Thank you. None of the three models offered me any FREE minutes. Even if one of them had, I probably would not have come to the conclusion that led to starting this thread. I don't think any of them felt they owed me anything. I thought I will get a "thank you" note by email from the guy I spent 6340 credits on. Nope! Complete silence.


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Diiegos
Created by: diiegos

8/14/24 @ 10:34am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Thank you. None of the three models offered me any FREE minutes. Even if one of them had, I probably would not have come to the conclusion that led to starting this thread. I don't think any of them felt they owed me anything. I thought I will get a "thank you" note by email from the guy I spent 6340 credits on. Nope! Complete silence.





Oh I understand. In my house to have a better pvt, before starting a pvt I spoke to them and said what I want, also to know if they are willing to do what they like or not, also because I don't know if they have done a cum show before, for If that's what I want, and if I hope you can change that, don't take the models with impulse so that it doesn't happen to you again.
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perfessir
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8/24/24 @ 12:35am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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You spent 3-1/2 hours and more than 6,000 credits in a private and didn't get what you wanted? You are a slow learner.
You don't like to let models know what you want? You will remain frustrated for the rest of your life unless and until you learn to communicate. It can be quite a turn-on to tell a performer how much you want to see his cock explode in front of the camera or shoot on his chest or face.
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beachboy31
Created by: beachboy31

10/27/24 @ 8:13am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Set up what they will do in time and credits 3hrs I would never
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allen11111
Created by: allen11111

10/27/24 @ 11:00am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I understand totally the balance between spontaneity and contractual agreements. I tend to be impulsive when I am horny and not particularly rational or in a negotiating mood.
It does change the experience to have to set a credit limit and expectations for a cum shot but I don't see how that is avoidable; if it means anything, I share your "pain".
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DaniGa22
Created by: daniga22

10/28/24 @ 1:39am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Set up what they will do in time and credits 3hrs I would never

Yes, I should. I am trying. :)
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DaniGa22
Created by: daniga22

10/28/24 @ 1:51am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I understand totally the balance between spontaneity and contractual agreements. I tend to be impulsive when I am horny and not particularly rational or in a negotiating mood.
It does change the experience to have to set a credit limit and expectations for a cum shot but I don't see how that is avoidable; if it means anything, I share your "pain".

I know this is a business transaction and should not expect things to happen spontaneously. It is not a real life date. Some day I will get to that place. "I give you this. You give me that. We are both happy."

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Created by: twixel

12/8/24 @ 1:02pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: California
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It lately has become standard practice. Had a show with a young model last night that gave me a time frame and made promises. Wasted time during the show and then decided to tell me he needed more time with less than 2 minutes remaining.
Not sure if the studios are teaching this procedure but all it does is upset the members and they lose fans.
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Created by: gofish

12/9/24 @ 12:56am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Yes, I should. I am trying. :)

daniga one might suggest if such a situation happens to any member on the site like this consider contacting the site. There might be a way to at least recover some of your credit at best, but at the same time put that model on notice if there are any issues in the future.

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Created by: midnightvoiceco

12/9/24 @ 7:50am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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You spent 3-1/2 hours and more than 6,000 credits in a private and didn't get what you wanted? You are a slow learner.
You don't like to let models know what you want? You will remain frustrated for the rest of your life unless and until you learn to communicate. It can be quite a turn-on to tell a performer how much you want to see his cock explode in front of the camera or shoot on his chest or face.


This. This is a sex site. You are paying for a product and it is not unreasonable to tell that product what your expectations are. This is a creative way to let the performer know you expect a cum shot.


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DaniGa22
Created by: daniga22

12/10/24 @ 11:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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This. This is a sex site. You are paying for a product and it is not unreasonable to tell that product what your expectations are. This is a creative way to let the performer know you expect a cum shot.

Agree.


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DaniGa22
Created by: daniga22

12/10/24 @ 11:20pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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daniga one might suggest if such a situation happens to any member on the site like this consider contacting the site. There might be a way to at least recover some of your credit at best, but at the same time put that model on notice if there are any issues in the future.

Certainly. I have also learned to tell the model what I want. It is not always easy because I want to be nice and romantic. hehe!


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DaniGa22
Created by: daniga22

12/10/24 @ 11:33pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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It lately has become standard practice. Had a show with a young model last night that gave me a time frame and made promises. Wasted time during the show and then decided to tell me he needed more time with less than 2 minutes remaining.
Not sure if the studios are teaching this procedure but all it does is upset the members and they lose fans.

Yes, sincerity matters. Otherwise customers won't return.


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12/14/24 @ 4:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Have to say while it is clear some members have been taken for a ride as they say that thanks to this forum thread the message is getting out there. There might be many members who might have had this experience who will now know they are not alone. Plus if the site reviews the messages on the forums perhaps they might find a way to address these issues. :thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup
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